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– Things you need to do in Karachi

So I had a short trip to Karachi a few days ago, and this is what I’d suggest to anyone traveling there.

SPA

I absolutely love pampering myself and taking time for a slow, relaxing self care day, whether it’s a soothing massage, a fresh manicure and pedicure, or a good blow dry. I recently had an amazing scalp and shoulder massage at SOHO Salon in Karachi that lasted about 15 to 20 minutes, and they really knew the right pressure points, finishing with hot stones and a warm towel, which was so relaxing I nearly fell asleep. My mani pedi was just as good, with a great range of nail colors and properly sterilized tools opened in front of me. The blow dry was average since the curls didn’t last long, possibly due to Karachi’s humidity, and overall salon services here are noticeably more expensive than in Lahore.

CHAAYE CULTURE

When I say Karachi has the best chaaye spots, I truly mean it. I love my tea and I know exactly how it should taste, and Chaye Wala in Bukhari is hands down the best I’ve ever had. Just get it in a disposable cup for the perfect experience. I used to get Doodhpati but in karak form with Cardamom. So it was a blend of three different chaaye they were serving.

Cafes and restaurants which aren’t in Lahore or your city.

You should definitely try cafes which aren’t available in the city or place you live. I absolutely love espresso, but they shut their branches off in Lahore. So when I went to karachi I went there thrice. Their spicy chicken panini sandwich, mushroom soup and the brick oven pizza was an absolute delight.

96NM for those frappes and coffee cravings. They had opened a pop up in Lahore a couple of months ago and they literally know how to make the perfect balance and blend of a frappe and a coffee. Their Signature (cold) NM special frappe and matcha is definitely what I’d recommend.

Cafe Flo was too bland and tasteless for me. Probably won’t be going there again. However Chef’s table was really good. We took an 11 course meal and we chose the items we’d want to be individually served to us. The desserts I didn’t like, it was too desi for my taste ā€œPaan Gelatoā€. I liked their Rice Pudding though. From the main I’d recommend the smashed beef in paratha. Amazing. The same paratha smash which got hyped in Dubai. Oh and I liked their Matka Biryani as well.

Seafood from Oyster Bay.

You need to try the seafood boil at Oyster Bay because it’s an experience in itself. It takes some effort as you crack open the crab carefully, trying not to hurt yourself in the process, and while they only had local crabs, I feel king crab would have been better since it’s meatier and easier to handle. The Cajun sauce wasn’t as spicy as I expected, especially compared to Boiling Crab where you can choose different spice levels, so my expectations were a bit high, but it was still enjoyable. The shrimps were similar but in a milder sauce, and overall it’s a fun, messy experience best enjoyed with friends or family where you go full desi and eat with your hands, and they even provide bibs and gloves to make it easier.

Good Luck ā¤ļø

No Guarantees, Only Moments

Life?

Life is a series of unpredictable events. Nothing and no one is ever certain. Even your own existence might not be there for the things you have planned. The people around you, your friends, they are with you only if they truly value you not for what they can gain. True bonds are unconditional. You should be able to trust someone completely, eyes closed, without hesitation.

We spend so much time planning unaware of what might happen along the way. That is why it is important to live life on your own terms. You only live once. Make sure that when you leave this world you can be at peace knowing you never settled for the bare minimum just because society expected it. Most of us realize this after our mid-twenties and then life becomes a journey of self-exploration.

Make the most of the time you have before it is too late and you are left with regrets. Every moment should be cherished. The only thing we can control is the present and how we face it not the past or the future. Overthinking destroys our present. I do it myself and it brings anxiety. Sometimes all I can do is reach out to those close to me and let them help calm my mind.

Life is unpredictable but it is beautiful. The key is to live it fully, love deeply, and hold onto what truly matters.

Sehr.

Summer 2026 wardrobe sorted 🌓 šŸ„„ā˜€ļøšŸŒ»āœØšŸ’›

Hey girls!

After all the self reflecting blogs and deeper thoughts, I am back here again with a simple seasonal blog to help you sort out your summer wardrobe.

I love shopping. Whenever I am stressed, I shop. When I am bored, I shop. I love the rush of dopamine I get whenever I buy something new or when an outfit turns out exactly the way I imagined it would.

Growing up, I was the only sister with two brothers. I was a complete tomboy and honestly did not care much about what I wore, just like boys usually don’t. Most of what I know now about dressing up and putting outfits together, I learned on my own. My mom has always been very chill about these things. Now she actually asks for my help sometimes. It is funny how time changes.

Like every year, I promised myself that I would not shop much this summer. But here I am again with a dozen suits even though summers have only just started. I love looking good and dressing up. But most of the time I end up buying things I do not even wear. They stay brand new in my closet and after some time I give them away because the trend has already passed.

This year I focused more on super soft fabrics that are easy to carry and comfortable for everyday summer wear. At the same time, I could not stop myself from buying a few heavily embroidered pieces as well, because there are always formal gatherings and special occasions where you want to dress up a little more.

Zaib

This brand has my heart mainly because it feels so niche. It never feels like one of those brands where everyone is wearing the same thing and it starts to look like a uniform. I have never liked wearing common clothes. I always want my outfit to feel unique and stand out in its own way. For me it is always about the little things like the cut, the colors, the dupatta and of course the way I carry it. I got four pieces from this collection and I love them all, although they do require a lot of care since they can only be dry cleaned. The black and the maroon ones especially have my heart because I love details on the back neckline. I have always been someone who notices the smallest details and to me those tiny touches are what really make an outfit special.

Bareeze

For years I never liked this brand because almost every weird aunty seemed to be wearing it. I think I associated the brand with the way those women carried themselves, so I always stayed away from it. But this time I came across the cutest rainbow pink, a golden one, and a green, and I could not resist. What really convinced me was the fabric. It was super soft and perfect for summers, which is exactly what you need in Pakistan. I stayed away from the overly embroidered pieces and chose the ones with minimal embroidery and chiffon dupattas. The harder part was actually designing them. I had to find the right lace and then scroll through Pinterest for design ideas. In the end I kept the designs very simple but added some lace details to give them a little character. It actually took me almost an hour just to decide on the right lace for my dresses. I kept comparing different patterns and imagining how each one would look with the fabric and the simple design I wanted. It may sound small, but it shows how much I care about the little details and how dedicated I am when it comes to making something look just right.

Crimson

Their lawn was actually very reasonably priced. Usually an unstitched designer suit costs somewhere around 16k, and once you add good lace work and stitching, it can easily go up to at least 25k. And most of their articles have silk duppata not organza. So honestly, their price point was a bit shocking in a good way. I also really liked how they focused on pastel shades as well as deeper, richer color palettes. The collection felt balanced — soft and summer friendly but still elegant enough for slightly formal wear. If you want designer wear on a budget you should definitely consider crimson.

Nishat

Again, the fabric is soft and breathable, which makes these pieces very versatile. I kid you not, the fabric is extremely soft — it feels almost like a feather on the skin. That kind of softness is exactly what makes summer clothing special because it keeps you relaxed even in the heat. You can lounge at home in it or step out for a casual, laid-back day without feeling overdressed. Pair it with a fresh blowdry and minimal makeup, and you are all set to catch up with friends effortlessly.

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The fit and fall of these outfits is everything. The delicate chikankari, short shirts, and loose fitted shalwars are my absolute favorite combination. Since I’m tall the silhouette falls even better on me and it just works. The red one has my heart but the baby blue and lilac are just as beautiful. I got the red when it had just launched and it sold out within days. I also love their plain scalloped dupattas and separate lowers. They offer such a beautiful variety of separates and it is definitely worth the price you pay. Definitely worth checking out.

Currently, this is what has been added to my wardrobe, and it’s all for summer wear. For me, comfort and fashion go hand in hand, especially in the Pakistani heat. I simply cannot wear something uncomfortable. Loose, well-fitted, soft fabric is what I reach for most of the time. It keeps me cool, comfortable, and stylish all at once.

I hope the coming time heals and brings peace to me and anyone reading this.

Unlearning My Emotional Habits

What could you do less of?

What could I do less of?

It’s a question that sounds simple, but the answers usually sit quietly in the corners of our lives, waiting for us to notice.

For me, the first answer is this: taking everything to heart. One harsh tone, one careless comment, one moment of rudeness—and suddenly there’s a storm inside me. My chest tightens, my thoughts spiral, and I replay the moment again and again like I’m responsible for everyone else’s cruelty.

But I’m learning something new, something difficult: I don’t have to absorb everything. Someone recently told me that if I keep internalising every hurtful thing, I’ll end up trapped in a loop of my own pain. And they were right. Letting people and situations be what they are is not weakness—it’s wisdom. This world tests us in quiet ways, and sometimes the bravest thing we can do is step back, breathe, and move on.

Maybe it hits harder because the one person who truly cared for my heart—the one who saw me, understood me, prioritised me—is no longer here. And now my sensitivity feels louder, like there’s no buffer between me and the world.

The second thing I could do less of?

Shopping my feelings away. One bad day and suddenly my cart looks like I’m stocking an entire vanity—clothes, makeup, skincare, all of it. Retail therapy feels good in the moment—comforting, distracting, almost like a friend. But eventually the packages arrive and half the things end up barely used, if at all. A temporary fix becomes permanent clutter.

Still, what can I say? I’m just a girl trying to soothe a sensitive soul the only way she knows how.

So yes, maybe I’m thin-skinned. Maybe I feel too much.

But recognising what I could do less of is the first step toward becoming someone stronger—not harder, just more at peace.

And honestly, that’s enough for now.

On the Days That Feel Heavy

ā€œIf today feels heavy, carry it lightly. If it feels empty, fill it with the smallest comforts. A warm drink. An uplifting song. Soft clothes. A deep breath. You don’t have to fix today. You just have to move through it.ā€

-Vex King

Some days feel heavier than others—days when the world presses in a little tighter, when motivation is hard to find, or when everything just feels… off. In those moments, it’s easy to think we need to fix everything right away: our mood, our circumstances, ourselves. But maybe the gentler path is simply to carry the day lightly. This quotation reminds us that we don’t have to force solutions or breakthroughs; we just need to find our footing and keep going. A warm drink, a soft hoodie, a peaceful nap, a favorite song—these tiny acts of comfort can anchor us more than we realize.

Life isn’t always about monumental change or productivity. Sometimes it’s about being tender with ourselves when the weight gets too much. When the day feels empty, we can fill it with small, nourishing moments that ask nothing of us but presence. You don’t need to solve every problem today. You just need to move through it—breath by breath, step by step, with kindness in your hands and softness in your heart. That alone is enough. That alone is brave.

Even butterflies seek shelter when it rains—to protect their delicate wings from being torn by the storm. They don’t fight the weather; they rest and wait. In the same way, it’s okay to pause and protect your own softness. The rain doesn’t last forever—and there’s always a rainbow waiting on the other side.

What’s meant for you will find its way. What isn’t will quietly fall away. Trust the process, and keep moving.